MUBAASRAT HUM BISTARI KE MASAIL

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                  *PART NO_01*     

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*·•●✿ Mubaashrat Miya Bivi Ka Haq Hain*

*Jo Mard Aurat Shara'i Nikaah ke Zariye Shohar Bivi ho gaye ,Mubaashrat karna Hum Bistari  Na Sirf Ye Ke ek Doosre ka Haq hain balki Nikaah ka Buniyadi maqsad hi yahi hai Ke Halaal Tareeqe se Mard Aurat ko Paak Daamani haasil Ho Wo Na-jaa'iz Shehwat Ranaai se bach jaye Halaal Aulaad paida ho is Tarah Nasle insaani aage Bade  Zinakaari aur Galat tareeqe se Shehwat Ranaai ke Raaste band ho taki Saleh Pakeezah Mashra Tashkeel Paye ,Be Raah Ravi Awaargi Se insaani mashra paak Rahe Haiwanaat Kï Nasl bhi aage badti he lekin Shariyat e mutahara ne Haya ka paband to nahi kiya lekin Aam haiwanaat Kï fitrat me Allah Ta'ala ne ye baat rakh Dï k Apni Maada ko doosre Naro se hifazat ka intezam karte he'n, Sivaye Khinzeer ke Wo be gairat Jaanwar he Shariyate mutahara ne insaan ko iska bhi paband kiya he k Hum Bistari ke Amal ke dauraan bhi Sharm v Haya ke nizaam ka paaband rahe ,Iski kuchh qaid aur hudood muqarrar kiye he'n k is daayre me reh kar Amal Anjaam de to khwahishe Nafs Kï takmeel ke saath Ajro sawab bhi haasil hoga ,Jo Aulaad Hogi Wo Bhi Ba Haya ,mati'a Aur Farmabardaar Hogi*

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                  *PART NO_02*     

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*·•●✿ Hum Bistari Ke Waqt Parda*

*Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam Ne farmaya Ke Barhana Nange  hone se ijtinaab bachna karo agarche tanhaai kyu na ho Kyuki Pakhana aur Apni Bivi se mujam'at ke Avqaat ke alawa tumhare saath har waqt woh Farishte Hote Hain Jo Tumhare A'amaal Likhne per mamoor Hai*

*Lihaza un Farishto se Haya karo aur Unki Tazeem karo Tirmizi To is Rivayat se maloom hua k Hum Bistari Kï haalat me Satar kholne Kï ijazat hai ,taham insaan ke saath kuchh Farishte hote hain Jo Agarche us waqt insaan se alag ho jate Hai taaham qareeb hote Hai Hum Bistari ke waqt koi Neki ya Buraai kare uska Sawab ya Gunaah Bhi Likhte hai Aur Rasoolullah ne in Farishto ke ikraam ka Hukm farmaya*

*Lihaza Bilkul Barhana hokar hum Bistari na kare balki koi Chaadar apne Ouper le Li Jaye Ye Soorat Sharm v Haya ke Zyada munasib he Ek Doosri Rivayat me Rasoolullah Ne irshad farmaya Ke Jima'a ke waqt wahshi Jaanwaro Kï Tarah Nange na Ho  Ganiyatul Talebeen ,98*

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                  *PART NO_03*     

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*·•●✿ Jima'a Se Pehle Masnoon Dua*

*Rasoolullah Ne irshad farmaya ke Jab Bivi se Humbistari ka iraada kare To Pehle ye Dua Padhe*

*بِسْمِ اللهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ ، وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْـتَنَا*

*Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibna-sh-shaytaana, wa jannibi-sh-shaytaana ma razaqtana*

*is Dua ke Ahatmam Kï Barkat se Aulaad Shaytaan ke Shar se Mehfooz Rahegi* 

 *Sahih-Bukhari*

*Hafiz Ibne Hajar Rahmatullah ne Hazrat imaam Mujahid Rahmatullah se iski Sharah me Naqal kiya he Jo Shakhs Humbistari ke waqt Hadees me mazkoor Dua nahi padhta to Shaytaan uske Aala Tanasul ke saath lipat Jata he aur Saath Shareek ho jata he*

*Fatahul Baari ,2/92*

*Aur Jis waqt injaal ho to Dil me Ye Dua padhe*

*Allahumma-La-Taja'al Lish Shaytaane Fi-M-Razaqatni Nasi-ba*

*Yani Ya Allah is Bachche me Jo Aapne hamare liye naseeb kare Shaytaan ke liye hissa na bana*

*Hisne Haseen Safa 165,*

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*·•●✿ Pakhana Ke Maqaam me Jima'a Karna Haraam hai*

*Apni Mankuha Biwi ke saath Humbistari karna Sirf Sharmgaah Mein Halaal hai Pichhe ke Raaste se ye Amal Shar'an Haraam Hai is Per Hadees Sharif me Laanat vaaeid hui hai Hazrat Abu Huraira Raziyallahu Anhu Kehte Hai Ke Rasoolullah Ne Irshad farmaya Jo Shakhs Apni Aurat Kï muq'ad Pakhana ka maqaam me bad fa'ali kare Wo maloun he*

*📓Mishkaat Sharif, 2/276*

   

*·•●✿ Haiz v Nifaas Ke Dino me Hambistari*

*Haiz v Nifaas ki haalat me Aurat se Sohbat karna Haraam he ,Bada Gunaah he isse bachna Laazim Hai Zaroori hai Kyuki Hadees me is per Vaieyd waarid hui Hai Agar koi galti se esa kar Bethe to Tauba karna Waajib he Aur Haalate Haiz me Sohbat karne Kï Vajah se Sadqa dene ka bhi Hukm aaya he is per bhi Amal kiya jaye ,k Tauba v istigfaar ke saath Sadqa Khairaat bhi kiya jaye*

*📓Ba-hawala Mishkaat, Ravaah Tirmizi ,Ibne Maaja*

*Iske Alawa Ayyame Haiz me Aurat ke Haath ka paka hua khana jaa'iz hai Uske Saath Uthna ,Bethna ,Letna bhi jaa'iz he*

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*·•●✿ Miya Bivi Ko Ek Doosre Kï Sharmgah Dekhna*

*Ulma ne Jima'a ke Adaab Mein se ye bhi Likha hai ke Miya Biwi ek doosre Kï Sharmgah ko Na dekhe*

*📓Ashraful Ahkaam*

*Baqi dekhna Shar'an Na-jaa'iz nahi balki Jaa'iz hai ,bas Sharm v Haya ke taqaze ke khilaaf hai Bivi Kï Sharmgah ka Bosa dena Joshe Muhabbat Mein Biwi ke Jism ke Mukhtalif Hisso ka Bosa Liya jata hai Lekin Sharmgah ka Bosa Shar'an jaa'iz nahi Ye Jaanwaro ka fa'al harkat hain Albatta haath Lagane Kï Gunzaish he ,Lihaza Josh per qaabu Rakhe Aur is Na-jaa'iz Harkat Se bache*

*📓Aalamgiri ,5/372 v Ahsanul Fatawa*

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*·•●✿ Mubaashrat Humbistari Se Pehle Boso Kinaar*

*Jab Shohar Mubaashrat ka iraada kare to Mubaashrat Se Pehle Biwi ko Manoos kare ,Boso kinaar Gale Lagana V choomna Jis Tarah ho sake use bhi Mubaashrat ke Liye Taiyaar kare ,iske Bagair Sohbat Shuru na kare Neez Sohbat ke waqt iska Bhi khayal Rahe k Foran Aurat Se Juda na Ho balki uske Shikam Ser Hone ka Intezar kare Varna Aurat Kï Tabiyat per Bura Asar Padta hai Jisse Zindgi Talkh ho jati hai*

*Shohar apni Bivi se Dillagi ,Boso Kinaar ,Sohbat aur uske baad Gusle Janabat karta he ,Allah Ta'ala in Tamaam cheezo per bhi Ajro Sawab Ata Farmate hai Hazrat Ayesha Raziyallahu Anhuma Ne ye Sunkar Arz kiya Ya Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Aurto'n ko To bahut sa sawab mil Gaya ,Mardo ke Bare mein Bhi irshad farmaiye Ye sun kar Rasoolullah Muskuraye aur farmaya Mard Apni Aurat ka Haath Pakad kar Usko manoos karta hai To Uske Liye ek Neki Likhi Jaati hai ,Jo Mard Pyar Se apni Aurat ke Gale Mein Haath daalta he uske Haq me das 10 Nekiya'n Likhi Jaati hai Jab Aurat se Mubaashrat karta he To Duniya v Mafiha se Behtar hoti hai*

*_aur beshak Allah Ta'ala is per fakhr karta he aur Farishto se kehta he k mere Bande Kï taraf dekho k esi sard Raat me gusle janabat ke liye uth ta he aur is baat per Yaqeen Rakhta he k Mai'n uska Rab hu'n Tum is baat Per Gawaah Raho k mene usko bakhsh diya*

*📓Fatawa Rahimiya ba- hawala Ganiyatul Talebeen ,93-94*

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                  *PART NO_07*     

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*·•●✿ Miya Bivi Kï Raaz Kï Baato Ka Batana Gunaah hai*

*Rasoolullah ne irshad farmaya Ke Qayamat Ke Roz Allah Ta'ala Ki Nazar Mein Wo Shakhs Bura Hoga Jo Apni Biwi Se Humbistar Ho Aur Uske Raaz Logon Par Zaahir kar De*

*📓Ravaah Muslim*

*Yani Humbistari ke Mutaliq Jo Baate Miya Biwi Kï Aapas Mein Hui Unko Logon ke Saamne Bayan Kare ya is Tarah Aurat ke Makhsoos Avsaaf Bayan kare ,isi Tarah Agar Aurat Mard Kï Baate doosri Aurto'n ke Saamne bayan kare To uska Bhi yahi Hukum hai Ke Wo bhi Gunaah he*

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*·•●✿ Humbistari Ke Baad Jald Gusl Karna*

*Jima'a se Faarig hokar istinja kar Liya jaye aur Jism Per Lagi Hui Najasat Gandgi ko dho Liya Jaye Agar Dobara Sohbat karne ka iraada Ho To Vazu karke Sohbat Kare Varna Gusl kar Le Bagair Gusl Kiye na Soye  Agar Uzr Ho To Subeh Tak Gusl Mein Takheer Ho sakti he Lekin Khayal Rahe ke Subeh Ki Namaz Namaze Fajar Qaza Na Ho* 

*is tarah Janabat Kï Haalat Mein Rehna ke Subeh Kï Namaz Qaza ho jaye Na-jaa'iz aur Gunaah hai Namaz se Pehle Gusl Se faarig ho kar waqt ke Andar Namaz ka Ahatmam Hona Chahiye*

*📓Ba-hawala---Gabiyatul Talebeen ,97-98*

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                  *PART NO_09*     

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*·•●✿ Aurat Biwi Kï ijazat Ke bager Azl Sharmgah se Bahar inzaal Karna*

*Aurat Biwi Ki Marzi ke Bagair koi Shakhs Jima'a ke baad Sharmgah se bahar inzaal Yani mani Nikaalna Nahin kar sakta Hazrat Abu Saied Khudri Raziyallahu Anhu kehye he'n ke Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam se Aurto'n se Azl ke mutalliq Sawal kiya gaya to irshad farmaya ke Har Paani Mani se Bachcha paida nahi hota Aur Jab Allah Ta'ala Bachcha takhleeq farmane ka iraada kare to Koi taaqat usko rok nahi sakti ,( Yani Azl karne ka koi faayda nahi*

*📓Ravaah Muslim ,Mishkaat 2/270*

*Chunki Jima'a Aurat ka Haq he ,inzaal bahar karne se uski haqtalfi hoti he ,isliye Azl karne ke liye usse ijazat Lena chahiye, Uski ijazat ke bager Azl karne ko Fuqha ne Makrooh Likha he Lekin sabka is per ittefaq he k Ye Amal Haraam nahi he Maa'ne Hamal Dava ka istemal karne ka bhi yahi Hukm he*

*📓Ba Hawala Hashiya Mishkaat Baab Mubaashrat*

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*·•●✿ Chaar Maah Ke baad Hamal Girana Qatl ke Hukum Mein Hai*

 *Mojooda Daur Mein Ladkiyo'n ko zinda dargor Zameen me gadda Khod kar dafan karna Karne ka Masla Rasm ke taur per to nahi ,Lekin isqaate Hamal ya koi esi soorat Akhtyar karna jisse Hamal qaraar na paye ,usko bhi Rasulallah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne " Vaad Khafi " farmaya he Yani Khufiya Tor per Bachche ko zinda dargor kar dena*

*Isqaate Hamal Kï Shara'i Haisiyat Qata'a Nasl Yani Esi soorat Akhtyar karna Jiski Vajah se Daaymi TOR per Quvvate toleed Bachcha Paida Karne Ki Taqaat khatm ho jaye ,ye soorat Bila ittefaq Haraam he Maa'ne Hamal  Esi Soorat Akhtyar karna k Quvvate Toleed baqi Rehte Hue Hamal qaraar na paye , bila uzr ye soorat Akhtyar karna Makrooh Tanzihi he aur darje zel soorat me bila karahat jaa'iz he 1 Aurat itni kamzor he k Hamal bardasht nahi kar sakti*

*2 Aurat apne watan Se door kisi ese maqaam per he Jaha'n uska mustaqil qayam ka iraada nahi aur safar kisi ese zariye Se he k usme Mahino lag jate ho 3 Miya Bivi ke aapsi talluqaat achchhe na hone Kï vajah se alag hone ka qasd (andesha )ho 4 Pehle Se mojood Bachche Kï Sahat kharab hone ka Shadeed khatra ho  5- Ye khatra ho k fasaade zamaan Kï Vajah se Bachcha bad Akhlaq aur Walden Kï Ruswayi ka sabab hoga*

*Agar koi ese Farz ke tahat Hamal roke Jo islami usoolo ke khilaf he to uska Amal bilkul Na-jaa'iz hoga ,Maslan Kasrate Aulaad se tangi e rizq ka Khayal ho Ya ye waham ho k Bachchi Paida hogi to aar hogi Hamal Thehar Jane ke baad Chaar maah poore hone se pehle kisi zariye se usko saaqit karna Ye soorat bila uzr Na-jaa'iz aur Haraam he Albatta baaz uzr Kï Vajah se iski gunzaish he ,maslan 1 Hamal Kï Vajah se Aurat ka Doodh khushk ho gaya aur Doosre tareeqo  se pehle Bachche Kï parvarish ka Intezam na- mukammal ho  2 Koi Deendar Maahir  tabeeb  Doctor Aurat ka muaayna karke ye keh de k agar Hamal baqi raha to Aurat Kï jaan ya koi Uzv zaay hone ka shadeed khatra he*

   

*Chaar Maah guzarne ke baad Hamal giraana ye Soorat mutlaqan Haraam he ,Kisi bhi uzr Se iski gunzaish nahi he*

*📓Ahsanul Fatawa, Hazrat Mufti Rasheed Ahmad Ludhiyanvi Reh*

*izdewaji Zindgi ke Shara'i Masail In Masle ko Achchhi Tarah Samajhne ke Liye Apne Qareebi Ulma Kiraam se Rabta kijiye*

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